25 Aug 2025
Here’s how it usually starts:
“Mate, we should buy this together.”
Simple. Exciting. Logical.
You like each other.
You trust each other.
Why not go halves?
But a few months later, it sounds more like:
“Why am I doing all the work while they disappear at 3pm every Friday?”
If you’ve ever thought about partnering with a mate, you’re not alone.
Plenty of smart people do it. Some get it right. Most learn the hard way.
This article is for anyone thinking about sharing ownership.
It’s not here to talk you out of it. It’s here to make sure you go in with your eyes open, your documents ready, and your expectations clear.
THE TRUTH ABOUT BUSINESS PARTNERSHIPS
Let’s be blunt. Most business partnerships fail.
Not because the idea was bad, but because the relationship couldn’t survive the pressure.
When you add money, customers, legal risk, long hours, and family stress to the mix, even the strongest friendships can crack.
These are the most common reasons partnerships fall apart:
One partner carries more of the load
Decision-making becomes slow or deadlocked
One wants to reinvest while the other wants to pull out profits
Expectations were never written down
Personal lives start interfering with business commitments
What started as “we’re in this together” becomes “I can’t keep doing this with them.”
PROS AND CONS OF PARTNERING WITH A FRIEND
To be clear, partnerships can work.
They just require more structure than most people think.
-Here’s how it breaks down:
Potential Benefits
Potential Risks
Share the financial burden
Share every decision, even the messy ones
Complementary skills
One person may end up doing more than the other
Emotional support and shared wins
Friendship may not survive business stress
Built-in trust and communication
Conflict can become personal and hard to fix
Bottom line: Trust helps. But clarity and structure are what actually keep it together.
SIGNS YOUR FRIEND MIGHT BE THE WRONG PARTNER
Friendship is great.
But being business-ready is a different skill set.
Here are some red flags to watch for:
They talk big but get vague about the details
They rely on your ideas, cash or contacts
They avoid hard conversations
They have not followed through on past projects
They are more excited about being a business owner than doing the actual work
They get defensive whenever money is mentioned
Their personal life is a rollercoaster
Gut check question: If you weren’t friends, would you still want to build a business with them?
If the answer is no, you’ve already made your decision.
WHAT A GOOD BUSINESS PARTNER LOOKS LIKE
You want someone who:
Gets things done without being chased
Can handle stress without blowing up
Understands money and decision-making
Shares your values around work, risk, and responsibility
Has a track record of finishing what they start
Can run part of the business independently
Is willing to talk through tough situations early
And they need to respect this fact:
Just because you’re mates, doesn’t mean the rules don’t apply.
TEN NON-NEGOTIABLE RULES BEFORE YOU PARTNER
1. Do your due diligence on them.
Check their track record. Speak to people they’ve worked with. Don’t skip this because you share a history.
2. Plan for the breakup on day one.
How will one of you exit if things change? What’s the process? What’s the price?
3. Avoid 50-50 ownership without clear leadership.
Someone has to be in charge. Deadlocks kill momentum. Give one partner operational control, or bring in a trusted third-party advisor.
4. Do not hand out equity based on future promises.
If they are not investing cash, they earn equity through performance. No free rides.
5. Use vesting periods.
Structure ownership to build over time. For example, 25 percent after one year, then the rest over three. It protects both of you.
6. Add a buy-back clause.
This gives you the right to buy them out under agreed terms if they want out or underdeliver.
7. Agree on how to value the business up front.
Use a multiple of profit, a fixed formula, or a valuation method both sides accept. Don’t leave it to emotion.
8. Put it all in writing.
Every role. Every responsibility. Every dollar. Use a solicitor and make it real.
9. Keep outside voices out of the room.
If their partner, sibling or old mate is whispering business ideas in their ear, it’s a problem. Only partners should be making decisions.
10. Let your solicitor ask the hard questions.They will push for clarity. That protects your friendship. That’s their job.
REAL EXAMPLE: WHERE IT ALL WENT WRONG
Two mates in regional NSW bought a mechanics workshop together.
One handled the workshop floor. The other managed admin and cash flow.
They started without a formal agreement. Things were great for six months.
Then the admin partner started missing days. Family stress. Health issues. Delayed bills.
The workshop partner picked up the slack.
Eventually, the working partner demanded to buy him out.
No valuation method had been agreed. The friendship soured.
They ended up in mediation. Legal fees topped twenty grand.
Lesson: No one thinks they’ll fight. Until they do.
PARTNERSHIP IS NOT ABOUT TRUST. IT'S ABOUT CLARITY.
You can trust your mate and still get everything in writing.
In fact, if you trust them, you’ll both want the same thing — structure.
If they resist structure, ask yourself why.
Because here’s the truth:
A good partnership will make business better.
A bad one will make every part of it harder.
If you are not both bringing something valuable to the table: time, cash, skills, systems... and you are not willing to spell it all out, then don’t do it.
Better to own a business solo than ruin a friendship trying to split one.
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